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Here we are in the thick of the season of present giving. I\u2019m wondering: What is it that makes a gift magical? From what I can see, the type of gift may vary wildly, in our family at least.<\/p>\n
We have a teenager in the family who was thrilled to receive a genuine Gucci handbag from her mother, who makes a modest income running a little barbershop. The price tag was staggering, representing to the teen an obvious sacrifice on the mother\u2019s part.<\/p>\n
Our daughter Sandhya, the uber environmentalist, never \u201cshops\u201d. She has given us hand-canned chutneys, jams and olive oil healing balms in the recent past. This Christmas when she comes to the islands to visit, she is giving us the gift of \u201cexperience\u201d. For adventurous family members, she plans to rent bikes to go mountain biking together on the North Shore; then she\u2019s taking all of us out to lunch and a farm\/smoothie tour at our local Kahuku Farms. We\u2019ll take plenty of mental and actual photos of the trek, with great memories and no physical stuff to store or dust afterwards.<\/p>\n
Our daughter Sandhya, the uber environmentalist, never \u201cshops\u201d. She has given us hand-canned chutneys, jams and olive oil healing balms in the recent past. This Christmas when she comes to the islands to visit, she is giving us the gift of \u201cexperience\u201d. For adventurous family members, she plans to rent bikes to go mountain biking together on the North Shore; then she\u2019s taking all of us out to lunch and a farm\/smoothie tour at our local Kahuku Farms. We\u2019ll take plenty of mental and actual photos of the trek, with great memories and no physical stuff to store or dust afterwards.<\/p>\n
Our most important gift this year is for the widower of my mother-in-love, SuSu. Bob is currently transitioning over to a senior living facility. He had asked me recently whether I had an old twin-bed sized bedspread in our linen closet, now that he is downsizing to a single twin bed. I decided that Bob needed a hand-made quilt from the whole family. After Thanksgiving dinner, each of us drew a special image for Bob on a block of fabric. Some distant family members had to express-mail theirs. The quilter went into high gear to get it made in time for Christmas delivery. I\u2019ve just received the finished quilt, and wow! I think we\u2019ve created an heirloom that Bob will treasure!<\/p>\n
Our kumu hula Malia often tells her hula halua (school) members that sometimes the best gift we can bring is an oli, a chant, befitting the occasion. Malia once created a singing gift that Marta treasures as her favorite Christmas present ever. Throughout the previous year Malia collected Marta\u2019s salty, irreverent pronouncements during staff meetings. Malia collated these original quotations into a customized version of the 12 Days of Christmas, which we all sang to Marta at our staff holiday party. The language is a little too \u201ccolorful\u201d for me to reprint here! Why did Marta love that gift so much? It represented a non-judgemental \u201cI really get who you are and I love you\u201d message from Malia and the rest of us to Marta, and that meant so much.<\/p>\n
Sometimes the best gift for my mom is NOTHING! Mom is the original Scrooge about receiving gifts \u2013 but because her heart is too large, not too small! When she sees a tree piled with presents up past the first and second levels of branches, the decadence of all those commercial purchases for people who already have so much always makes her think of the starving children in Africa and Asia. She and I have an agreement that I never give her a gift unless and until I find something that I\u2019m sure she will love \u2013 it\u2019s almost always a handmade piece of art or clothing, which directly supports the livelihood of an artisan. It looks as if she\u2019ll probably get her favorite gift from me of no addition to the Christmas tree pile-up.<\/p>\n
My most beloved Christmas gift ever came from my mom when I was in kindergarten. Wanting to avoid the sex-symbol Barbie dolls that were popular even back then, my mom bought me a life-like little girl doll of similar size called Betsy McCall. We lived on a shoe-string budget when I was a kid, so buying the doll was something Mom probably saved up to do, with no funds left over for her fancy little fashion clothes. What absolutely tickled me that Christmas morning morning was opening the small blue wardrobe trunk that came with my Betsy McCall. Inside I found a little closet filled with tiny clothes made from scraps of fabric Mom had used to sew MY clothes for kindergarten! So here was my new little doll friend, complete with outfits that were miniatures of mine! I ADORED that gift!<\/p>\n
So what is the favorite gift you have ever given or received? My darling Betsy McCall doll became a dainty pile of ashes in the Oakland, California firestorm that consumed my mom\u2019s house in 1991. But you know, my memory of that little look-alike Betsy is as alive in my mind and heart as if she were under my Christmas tree today.<\/p>\n
Perhaps the magical gifts are the ones with the power to truly touch our hearts.<\/p>\n
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